Dads play a most important role in every child’s life. While moms get most tips, here’s 10 great tips to help dads be Great Dads!:
- I listen with my entire being – and without judgment. I seek first to understand and appreciate what my children say. From that vantage point, I will build their trust in me and be supportive.
- I see others as equals, not as inferiors, equals or superiors. All are equal. Every person is a unique individual, just like everyone else on the planet. We each have our own journey and everyone we encounter is integral to our life’s objectives. Children are no less essential and should be treated with equal respect.
- I engage my curiosity completely. I truly want to understand and try to grasp all that is going on for my children. I want to see the world afresh from their perspectives and glean new insights through them. I ask questions without an agenda.
- I consider all perspectives and choose consciously. In this world of infinite possibilities, I seek to understand where everyone is coming from and only then draw my conclusions. I share this process with those I love.
- First, do no harm! I communicate to foster understanding and growth but never to hurt. “Sticks and stones…” I know my words can cut deeper, and the resulting wounds take longer to heal.
- I tell stories that speak to the heart. When I speak from the heart, my words penetrate other’s hearts. Parables and personal stories are easy to accept and are rarely accusatory, though often funny and informative.
- I articulate the nuances. I use a rich vocabulary to communicate distinctions that will help to raise awareness and expand my family’s appreciation of life.
- I understand the power of my touch. From a gentle touch on the cheek, to a vigorous backrub, to wrestling on the floor, I communicate my love through the powerful medium of touch. And I know when to refrain as well.
- I share what’s there. I discuss difficult issues that warrant open communication without fear. I believe open communication will lead to the greatest family unity, even though the journey may be difficult.
- T.I.M.E. That’s how I spell ‘love’ to my children.
- My actions are congruent with my values. I am keenly aware that actions speak louder than words. The best communication is when words and actions match perfectly. Values in action…